Tuesday, May 10, 2005

Don't know how come we all have grown up ?

Na Jaane Kaise aur kab hum sab yaar dost achanak se he bade ho gaye.

Ek samay tha, jab kissi ko ek simple pointer assignment mein thodi si bhi fight hoti thi, to log ek doosre ko kheech ker apni seat per le aate the aur bitha ker, funde dete hue kaam karwate the.

Aaj apne doston ki, Manager se fight ho jati hai, woh Manager ke muh per "FUCK-OFF" keh ker chale aate hai, naukri ko laat maar ker, aur kisi ko kano kaan khaber nahin hoti. kyun ? kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain.

Ek samay tha, jab kisi ko agar 2 gali chhod ker interview bhi dena hota tha, to poore group ko pata hota tha, ki aaj apne ek yaar ka interview hai.

Aaj apne dost achanak se Fly kerke, Vatan (US) aa rahe hote hain, aur doosron ke muh se pata chalta hai. Kyun ? Kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain

Ek samay tha, jab agar kisi ko CP form bhi lene jana hai, to pura weekend dilli mein masti mein plan ker liya jata tha.

Ab apne dost, vatan aa jate hain, wapas bhi chalte jaate hain, phir bhi kissi ko pata nahin chalta, kabhi weekend per ghar jayo to aise he muh se nikal jata hai. Kyun ? Kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain.

Ek samay tha, jab log IIT ki tayari karne ke liye Birla Mandir test de ke liye, saath saath jate the.

Ab log naukri chhod dete hain, apna kaam shuroo ker dete hain aur phir bhi logon ko khaber nahin hoti.

Ek samay tha, jab kisi ki kissi bandi se "Hi Hui" bhi ho jaati thi, to poore group mein ek nayi gossip industry khul jaati thi.

Ab logon ki sagai ho jati hai, aur phir bus Shaadi se 10 din pehle khaber aati hai ki bandhu ke vivah mein aap saader aamantrit hain. Kyun ? Kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain.

Ek samay tha, jab log saath saath baith ker ghar ke ander daaroo peete the, Cigarette phookte the, Bina Shlokon (Abuses rhymed) ke varta shuroo nahin kerte the.

Ab logon ko apni kitchen mein paani na gir jaye, iska khayal rehta hai, log bahut jor jor se nahin haste. kyun ? Kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain.

Ek samay tha, jab woh college se ghar aata tha, aur agar udaas hota tha, to sab kuch bol deta tha.

Ab woh saare weekends per bhi office jata hai, raat raat bher kaam kerta hai, aur mail bhi yada kada he karta hai. Kyun ? Kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain.

Ek Samay tha, jab woh school mein mere baraber mein baithta tha, darwaaze ke kinare, aur hum saath saath ladkiyan tadte the.

Ab woh bandiyan pata leta hai, phir shaadi bhi ho jati hai, and saat samander paar chala jaata hai, phir kabhi kabhi khaber aa he jaati hai. Kyun ? Kyunki ab hum sab bade ho gaye hain

Hum sab itne bade kyun ho gaye hain ?

English Translation of the above, actually Blackempress visited the blog and commented, so I am translating in in english.


Don't know how and when we all friends have suddenly grown up?

Once upon a time, if somebody needed to perform a simple Pointer assignment, he shall pull the other guy out of his seat, and then ask him to do it, along with passing on fundas gracefully.

Now friends indulge in a fight with Manager, they will yell "Fuck off" on his straight face, shall kick away the job, and nobody in town shall have a word about it. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, if somebody is appearing for an interview, just after 2 alley, the whole group shall be knowing, that one of us is getting interviewed.

Now One of them is flying to Country (US) and somebody else will pour in the news of his travel. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, if somebody has to go to CP to buy a form, the whole weekend shall be planned up for round of Fun and Frolic.

Now Friends arrive in the Nation (US), return back to Home, nobody never gets a clue, and if sometime you arrive at there home over the weekend, then the trip shall be casually mentioned. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, when to prepare for IIT people use to go to Birla Mandir as a group.

Now People leave there jobs, start their own venture, and even then nobody knows. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, when even a simple "Hi Hui" with a female is taken as a seed for the New Gossip Chain.

Now People get engaged, and just before 10 days of wedding, you are invited for the auspicious ocassion. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, inside the chambers of Holy Home, People use to Smoke, Drink and start there talks with all the Verses (in abuses).

Now guys are worried of the spilled water in the kitchen, Nobody laughs his heart out. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, when he use to come from college and if he is sad, he shall spit everything out.

Now he is frying is butts out in office over all weekends, staying long nights and there is not even a mention in mails. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Once upon a time, we use to sit next to the door with each other in school and use to oogle Gals together,

Now he stupefies the females, gets married and vanishes himself across seven oceans. We now exchange dialect seldom. Why ? Coz we all have grown up.

Why we all have grown up ?

16 comments:

  1. Thanks for leaving a comment. I can see that u have a good collection here. forgive my limited understanding of the language but I'm sure that the post would b good. I like the title. REminds me of wat I usually am thinking being an adult now.

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  2. It is not because People have grown up,It is because People are selfish & Self Centred , opportunist.
    Agar Payda hai, then they come to you. Else No. They make some local friends for thier benifit. This is life dear. Dont be so senti.

    Hirdu, as per I know you, You are the one person who want to carry everyone ,everytime even though u are aware that u wont be benifited by them, still u are good to them. That is your greatness. But expecting same from people is Utter foolishness.
    Rupa

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  3. Umm,yeh...when people grow older ( not grow up ;))they tend to take themselves too seriously.Nothing needs to be told or reminded until they feel it's reqd...and more often than not,none has the time to find out wht's really reqd...:)

    You are lucky if you enjoy life till the end
    You are the luckiest if you enjoy it with an old friend :)

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  4. Ps:- GET A SHOUTBOX! Thanks in advance :D.

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  5. thanks alot. Im honored:)
    Really a good post. some realisations r sad. Its nice to meet the oppurtunities life offers but we do miss out on the childhood stuff. touching.

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  6. [Rupa] - I am floored, Am I really like that :)

    [Zarine] - I am searching for a friend like that... :( so many years....

    Shall find out soon how to have a shoutbox :)

    [Blackempress] - ya its true...but...

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  7. Go to www.myshoutbox.com and get one..nice n simple :)

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  8. A friend sent these comments by mail to me. I am posting them on his behalf.....

    English ...Ya to acchi ho fundu words ke saath.
    Ya Seedhi ho simple words ke saath...Lekin khabi Buri na ho fundo words ke saath.
    M**erc*** , Kabhi kabhi Conjunctions aur prepositions jaisi cheezon par bhi dyan diya kar.

    "gets married and vanishes himself('himself' not required)"
    "Didn't had (have) any clue what"
    "Listen to the Song and post in the('the' not required) English involved"

    Isko theek karo ...english lyrics baad me samajna .

    Ab lagta hai mujhe (Hirdu) isko theek karna he padega :(

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  9. LOL..this is very cute post..i agree ppl grow up they become so self centered and matured..agar koi pehle ki terah rahna bhi chahe to kaise rahe..aajkal time kahan milta hai :(

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  10. Yes, you are really like that agar if you dont have elephants teeth.

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  11. Well i can relate to that easliy.. in the process of growing up and not old we have to change.. aint that how it is supposed to me...
    We get some we lose some.. thats the basic nature if this Universe..
    So lets gain and enjoy with what we have newly found and lets cherish the memories of what we have lost...

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  12. zindagi teez bohat teez challi ho jesay...
    lovely! i loved the article!
    its so true...

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  13. zindagi teez bohat teez challi ho jesay...
    lovely! i loved the article!
    its so true...

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  14. Beautiful !
    We grow old and grow apart. As Rupa said, we become selfish, self-centred. And on the other hand, some of us like to take those times along with us but they slips away like sand from your hand and still we wouldn't let go..and then there are some of us, who would 'move on'...move so fast and so far that you might never see them again...
    'Kiyuki hum bade ho gaye, Kiyuki hum apni hi banayi huyi duniya mein kho gaye...
    Kiyuki yeh humko bhi maloom hai ki guzra huya kal phir nahi aayega,
    Kiyuki ummeedo ke pull yuhi bikhar jaayega.'

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